Romance & Reality

A personal blog where romance, reads and reflections intertwine.

March 23, 2026

Should I Have Kids? | Part 2: When the Village Fades

As the African proverb goes, “it takes a village to raise a child.” But what happens when the village fades? The wellbeing of a child is the whole family’s responsibility, not just parent’s alone. Continue reading

2026, Reflections

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March 21, 2026

Should I Have Kids? | Part 1: Questioning It All

I’ve reached a point in life where I’m dissecting the reasons, expectations and reality behind having children. If I were to become a parent, what would be my reason(s) for doing so? Continue reading

2026, Reflections

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March 12, 2026

I’m Single Because… (Wine Edition)

A late-night reflection on standards, patterns, and modern dating. Continue reading

2026, Reflections

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